We human beings so often spoil our lives by failing to speak the truth, or at least, failing to speak the whole truth, clearly and transparently. The reasons we fail to speak the truth often have to do with fear. We are afraid that someone will get hurt and so we try to shield them from what we imagine will be too painful for them to handle. Or we're afraid that we ourselves will be hurt because our reputation will be damaged and people will despise us or be shocked by our behaviour.
If we stand on the sidelines and watch, as we do with soaps
I am so happy to see you this morning. How are you? (children may respond)
Let's play a game I call “Lost and Found.” Okay? (children respond)
(presenter role plays) Uh, oh, I lost something for today's message. Hmm, I wonder where it could be. It's a box like this. (shows approximate dimensions) (instruct the children to look around the immediate area) (then presenter or child finds it)
Since the Fourth Sunday in Lent has been historically identified as Laetare (Rejoicing Sunday), it is most appropriate that the lessons collectively testify to a theme for which we can rejoice — God saves us by his grace!
In this familiar and well-loved story of the Prodigal Son, I often wonder what happened to the mother of the family. She's totally ignored. So are any daughters. It seems like a completely male stronghold. So much so that I wonder whether perhaps the mother had died some years previously, and that was the cause of much of the unhappiness displayed by both the father and the sons. Or whether the father was such a domineering character that his wife played no real part in family life, but simply bowed her head in compliance with all his wishes, no matter how extreme they were.