Balaam, The Donkey And The Angel
Biblical Studies
At Odds With God
Adult Bible Study And Sermon Resource
At first glance, Balaam, the donkey and the angel don't have a
problem. They tried to do exactly what God wanted them to do. But
God seemed to change his mind about what he wanted Balaam to do
for him. The following fiction is about how Balaam, the donkey
and the angel puzzle out God's apparent change of mind. Have you
ever tried to figure out God?
(This chapter finds its "confusion" in the uncertainty of one
ancient Hebrew word concerning the motivation of the angel of the
Lord, in Numbers 22:32b.)
(Please read Numbers 22)
Balaam, The Donkey
And The Angel
Balaam, the Donkey and the Angel sit together in a narrow path
between some vineyards. Balaam is still puzzled that his donkey
can talk. The presence of the angel still makes him nervous, but
an angel-of-the-Lord is an angel-of-the-Lord and what can you do?
Balaam decides to review some of the events leading up to this
embarrassing situation of his misunderstanding a donkey, an angel
and God. Was he supposed to go to the foreign King Balak or not?
Was he supposed to curse God's people or not? Was the angel there
to scare him, warn him or give him this talkative donkey who
won't be quiet now that he's got the gift of gab?
Balaam: Okay, Okay ... I didn't set out to get confused here. As
far as I can remember, it seems to me God changed his mind about
me going to curse his people on behalf of this foreign king named
Balak, son of Zippor of Moab. Weird names ...
Angel: (Piously) How could you get confused about God? He would
never allow you to go and curse his people. As an angel, which,
by the way, means "messenger," I would never doubt God's
intention for his people's good. I would do what he says and get
on with it. Does it seem to you that God changes his mind, so
what? He's God.
Balaam: Well, aren't you a goodie-two-shoes. No wonder you're an
angel ...
Angel: (Hotly) Okay, smart guy. Let's review how you goofed up.
Donkey: I'll tell you how he goofed up. He hit me. Not once; but
three times!
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Balaam: Don't start braying about that again. I apologize. I
didn't see the angel. I didn't know why you veered off the road
into a field, smacked into a wall and then collapsed. My "anger
was kindled," I just got mad at you. I had enough to do trying to
figure out God: God changing his mind on me: "Go to Balak. Don't
go to Balak. Go."
Donkey: So, God can't change his instruction to you? His plans
didn't fit your sense of order, so you hit me? Am I not your
donkey, which you have ridden all your life to this day? I only
veered, smacked and collapsed because I saw this angel with a
sword in his hand standing in front of us. Don't you think that's
a good enough reason to "veer" once in my life?
Balaam: I said I was sorry and I meant it.
Angel: Me too, Donkey. I didn't mean to scare you. God's anger
was kindled because [Balaam] was going ... I took my stand in the
road.
Balaam: But that's what bothers me when I look back on the whole
thing: First God told me, "You shall not go with them; you shall
not curse my people for they are blessed." That made sense; the
Israelites are God's own people, why mess with them? I told
Balak's guys to forget it. But more officials show up, I resist
them and say, "... I could not go beyond the command of the Lord
my God, to do less or more."
Angel: But you knew God might have more to say to you.
Balaam: Yes, but he seemed to change his mind completely and told
me to, "... get up and go with them; but do only what I tell you
to do."
Donkey: So, what's the matter? Trust God, Balaam.
Balaam: I trust God, I do -- really. I take on his change of
plans, and then an angel with a sword shows up and my donkey goes
out of control. I got so mad!
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Donkey: I know! You threatened to kill me. You were so upset at
seeming a fool, that it didn't startle you a bit that your donkey
was talking.
Balaam: Listen, lately I've been talking with God ... anything is
possible.
Angel: (Piously) But have you been listening to God?
Balaam: (Aside to Donkey) Angels can be irritating, you know
that?
Donkey: Tell me about it. He scared the hell out of me.
Angel: You're getting pretty familiar. You weren't so casual when
the Lord opened your eyes and you saw me standing in the road
with my drawn sword. You fell on your face. It's a good thing
too. Had you kept coming, I would have killed you and let the
donkey live.
Balaam: Okay, okay, I messed up with the donkey. But how was I
supposed to know that God was trying to tell me not to go to
Balak? I admit, "I have sinned, for I did not know that you were
standing in the road to oppose me. Now, therefore, if it is
displeasing to you, I will return home." From now on, I just want
some plain explicit instructions about what God is going to want
from me.
Angel: What's your point, exactly?
Balaam: (Exasperated) Oooh. The point is that it's unfair that
God seems to change his mind and doesn't let me know about it. I
don't understand his plans and then I look like a fool with this
donkey, and then you almost end up killing me. It seems unfair,
unkind, embarrassing ...
Angel: And my angelic point is that only God is in control. Get
used to it. The reason I blocked your way was because
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it was "perverse" before me. (Numbers 22:32b. The Ancient Hebrew
word thought to be "perverse" is obscure and not known for sure.)
Balaam: My way was what before you? I didn't hear you.
Angel: Actually, it doesn't matter why I did what I was sent to
do. What matters is that God commanded it to be done. Shall I
pose an allegory concerning God and you; you and your donkey?
Balaam: A what?
Donkey: A connecting story between how you reacted to me and how
you react to God.
Balaam: Smart donkey. Okay, fine. But I better not end up being
God's donkey.
Angel: Listen. Think how you reacted to the donkey doing his best
to avoid what he recognized as a danger.
Donkey: Yeah. You hit me. Big man.
Balaam: Well, I didn't know what you were doing. I thought that
after all these years, you'd gone nuts. I wondered if I could
trust you. I forgot you were my friend. We'd been everywhere
together.
Angel: Do you see any connection yet between your not trusting
your donkey and your not trusting God?
Balaam: What? You mean my not trusting God after all this time?
Yeah. I see what you're getting at ... I got mad instead of
trusting my life-long donkey. Now I'm mad at my life-long God. I
should trust God even when it seems he's nuts.
Angel: I wouldn't put it that way ...
Balaam: No, you wouldn't. But I get your point. God is in control
and God loves his people, he loves me. I'm sorry I got so angry.
Donkey: Make sure it doesn't happen again.
Angel: Yeah, watch your reaction to problems. God is with you.
Donkey: Somehow you'd goofed up and God was setting you on the
right path again. That's no reason to get mad at me or wonder
about God's goodness.
Balaam: Yeah, you're right. I just wish God would tell me what I
should do.
Donkey: I wonder what's down the road for us.
Angel: I just happen to know.
Balaam: Tell me!
Angel: Balaam, you're doing it again. Trust God.
Balaam: I knew you'd say that.
Questions About The Story
Questions For You
(The playlet is fictional, based on the scripture quotations
found in it. However, the basic conflict of being puzzled and
frustrated at God's will is not fictional. You will be asked
questions based on this conflict and see your conflict with God
as real because: You're real and God is real.)
1. God seems to change his mind in Numbers 22, verse 20. Do
you see this as a problem? Does Balaam?
2. When does Balaam get angry at the way things are going?
Could this have anything to do with Balaam's frustration with
being God's servant? (v. 27)
3. Is Balaam a faithful servant of God?
4. How does God, the angel of the Lord and the donkey help
Balaam to be a faithful servant? (vv. 24, 33)
5. When did you last ask God, "Hey, what's going on here?"
6. Who helps you to be a faithful servant? Family? Friends?
Prayer? The Sacraments? Church? Pastor? Confession?
7. Do you ask God what's going on during really good times?
8. What do you think God is "up to" in your life right now?
9. Who can help you to figure this out?
10. Is it necessary to "figure this out?"
Reflection By A Famous Christian On:
Puzzling Out God
This is a legend about St. Augustine: Augustine took a break
from his writing one afternoon. He was writing about the trinity;
about how God was one God in three persons.
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As this is a mystery that is impossible for mortals to completely
comprehend, Augustine was confused and frustrated. Off he went
down the beach.
There was a little boy taking water from the Mediterranean Sea
and pouring it from a bucket into a little hole he'd dug in the
sand. Augustine asked the boy, "What are you doing?" The boy
replied that he was attempting to put all the sea into this hole
of his. "Stupid boy," Augustine observed.
The boy replied, "Not as stupid as you trying to explain God."
A Prayer Starter
Dear God, you are my God. I am your child. Help me to trust
you and your love for me. You show your love for me plainly in
the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Help my soul to cling
to you and for your right hand to sustain me.
Suggestions For Practicing Your Prayer
1. As you trust God today, what can you do to show this trust?
2. As you trust God today, what can you refrain from doing to
show this trust?
3. Pray the Our Father three times a day this week. Take time
to repeat three times each prayer: "... your will be done, on
earth as in heaven ..."
A Suggested Order Of Worship
For
Balaam, The Donkey
And The Angel
(Note: You may want to break into small groups for discussion of
the story and then join together again for the closing worship.
If so, select discussion leaders to help people reflect on the
questions in the book. Or, you may want to stay together and
reflect silently as the questions are read.)
Opening: Greeting and introduction of "The Conflict Of The Will:
Our Puzzlement At God's Perfect Will."
Hymns: "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God" or "Lord, Keep Us Steadfast
In Your Word"
Read: Introduction to Chapter Two, page 19
Reading: Numbers 22
Meditation: Balaam, The Donkey And The Angel
Discussion: Break into discussion groups and follow "Questions
About The Story/Questions For You" or read aloud for group silent
reflection. When finished, quietly return to worship setting.
Read: "Reflections By A Famous Christian"
Read: "Prayer Starter"
Invitation: Invite people to add their own prayers
Read: "Suggestions For Practicing Your Prayer"
The Lord's Prayer
The Apostles' Creed
Hymns: "I Wonder As I Wander" or "Love Divine All Loves Excelling"
Benediction And Dismissal: "Go in peace and serve the Lord."
problem. They tried to do exactly what God wanted them to do. But
God seemed to change his mind about what he wanted Balaam to do
for him. The following fiction is about how Balaam, the donkey
and the angel puzzle out God's apparent change of mind. Have you
ever tried to figure out God?
(This chapter finds its "confusion" in the uncertainty of one
ancient Hebrew word concerning the motivation of the angel of the
Lord, in Numbers 22:32b.)
(Please read Numbers 22)
Balaam, The Donkey
And The Angel
Balaam, the Donkey and the Angel sit together in a narrow path
between some vineyards. Balaam is still puzzled that his donkey
can talk. The presence of the angel still makes him nervous, but
an angel-of-the-Lord is an angel-of-the-Lord and what can you do?
Balaam decides to review some of the events leading up to this
embarrassing situation of his misunderstanding a donkey, an angel
and God. Was he supposed to go to the foreign King Balak or not?
Was he supposed to curse God's people or not? Was the angel there
to scare him, warn him or give him this talkative donkey who
won't be quiet now that he's got the gift of gab?
Balaam: Okay, Okay ... I didn't set out to get confused here. As
far as I can remember, it seems to me God changed his mind about
me going to curse his people on behalf of this foreign king named
Balak, son of Zippor of Moab. Weird names ...
Angel: (Piously) How could you get confused about God? He would
never allow you to go and curse his people. As an angel, which,
by the way, means "messenger," I would never doubt God's
intention for his people's good. I would do what he says and get
on with it. Does it seem to you that God changes his mind, so
what? He's God.
Balaam: Well, aren't you a goodie-two-shoes. No wonder you're an
angel ...
Angel: (Hotly) Okay, smart guy. Let's review how you goofed up.
Donkey: I'll tell you how he goofed up. He hit me. Not once; but
three times!
20
Balaam: Don't start braying about that again. I apologize. I
didn't see the angel. I didn't know why you veered off the road
into a field, smacked into a wall and then collapsed. My "anger
was kindled," I just got mad at you. I had enough to do trying to
figure out God: God changing his mind on me: "Go to Balak. Don't
go to Balak. Go."
Donkey: So, God can't change his instruction to you? His plans
didn't fit your sense of order, so you hit me? Am I not your
donkey, which you have ridden all your life to this day? I only
veered, smacked and collapsed because I saw this angel with a
sword in his hand standing in front of us. Don't you think that's
a good enough reason to "veer" once in my life?
Balaam: I said I was sorry and I meant it.
Angel: Me too, Donkey. I didn't mean to scare you. God's anger
was kindled because [Balaam] was going ... I took my stand in the
road.
Balaam: But that's what bothers me when I look back on the whole
thing: First God told me, "You shall not go with them; you shall
not curse my people for they are blessed." That made sense; the
Israelites are God's own people, why mess with them? I told
Balak's guys to forget it. But more officials show up, I resist
them and say, "... I could not go beyond the command of the Lord
my God, to do less or more."
Angel: But you knew God might have more to say to you.
Balaam: Yes, but he seemed to change his mind completely and told
me to, "... get up and go with them; but do only what I tell you
to do."
Donkey: So, what's the matter? Trust God, Balaam.
Balaam: I trust God, I do -- really. I take on his change of
plans, and then an angel with a sword shows up and my donkey goes
out of control. I got so mad!
21
Donkey: I know! You threatened to kill me. You were so upset at
seeming a fool, that it didn't startle you a bit that your donkey
was talking.
Balaam: Listen, lately I've been talking with God ... anything is
possible.
Angel: (Piously) But have you been listening to God?
Balaam: (Aside to Donkey) Angels can be irritating, you know
that?
Donkey: Tell me about it. He scared the hell out of me.
Angel: You're getting pretty familiar. You weren't so casual when
the Lord opened your eyes and you saw me standing in the road
with my drawn sword. You fell on your face. It's a good thing
too. Had you kept coming, I would have killed you and let the
donkey live.
Balaam: Okay, okay, I messed up with the donkey. But how was I
supposed to know that God was trying to tell me not to go to
Balak? I admit, "I have sinned, for I did not know that you were
standing in the road to oppose me. Now, therefore, if it is
displeasing to you, I will return home." From now on, I just want
some plain explicit instructions about what God is going to want
from me.
Angel: What's your point, exactly?
Balaam: (Exasperated) Oooh. The point is that it's unfair that
God seems to change his mind and doesn't let me know about it. I
don't understand his plans and then I look like a fool with this
donkey, and then you almost end up killing me. It seems unfair,
unkind, embarrassing ...
Angel: And my angelic point is that only God is in control. Get
used to it. The reason I blocked your way was because
22
it was "perverse" before me. (Numbers 22:32b. The Ancient Hebrew
word thought to be "perverse" is obscure and not known for sure.)
Balaam: My way was what before you? I didn't hear you.
Angel: Actually, it doesn't matter why I did what I was sent to
do. What matters is that God commanded it to be done. Shall I
pose an allegory concerning God and you; you and your donkey?
Balaam: A what?
Donkey: A connecting story between how you reacted to me and how
you react to God.
Balaam: Smart donkey. Okay, fine. But I better not end up being
God's donkey.
Angel: Listen. Think how you reacted to the donkey doing his best
to avoid what he recognized as a danger.
Donkey: Yeah. You hit me. Big man.
Balaam: Well, I didn't know what you were doing. I thought that
after all these years, you'd gone nuts. I wondered if I could
trust you. I forgot you were my friend. We'd been everywhere
together.
Angel: Do you see any connection yet between your not trusting
your donkey and your not trusting God?
Balaam: What? You mean my not trusting God after all this time?
Yeah. I see what you're getting at ... I got mad instead of
trusting my life-long donkey. Now I'm mad at my life-long God. I
should trust God even when it seems he's nuts.
Angel: I wouldn't put it that way ...
Balaam: No, you wouldn't. But I get your point. God is in control
and God loves his people, he loves me. I'm sorry I got so angry.
Donkey: Make sure it doesn't happen again.
Angel: Yeah, watch your reaction to problems. God is with you.
Donkey: Somehow you'd goofed up and God was setting you on the
right path again. That's no reason to get mad at me or wonder
about God's goodness.
Balaam: Yeah, you're right. I just wish God would tell me what I
should do.
Donkey: I wonder what's down the road for us.
Angel: I just happen to know.
Balaam: Tell me!
Angel: Balaam, you're doing it again. Trust God.
Balaam: I knew you'd say that.
Questions About The Story
Questions For You
(The playlet is fictional, based on the scripture quotations
found in it. However, the basic conflict of being puzzled and
frustrated at God's will is not fictional. You will be asked
questions based on this conflict and see your conflict with God
as real because: You're real and God is real.)
1. God seems to change his mind in Numbers 22, verse 20. Do
you see this as a problem? Does Balaam?
2. When does Balaam get angry at the way things are going?
Could this have anything to do with Balaam's frustration with
being God's servant? (v. 27)
3. Is Balaam a faithful servant of God?
4. How does God, the angel of the Lord and the donkey help
Balaam to be a faithful servant? (vv. 24, 33)
5. When did you last ask God, "Hey, what's going on here?"
6. Who helps you to be a faithful servant? Family? Friends?
Prayer? The Sacraments? Church? Pastor? Confession?
7. Do you ask God what's going on during really good times?
8. What do you think God is "up to" in your life right now?
9. Who can help you to figure this out?
10. Is it necessary to "figure this out?"
Reflection By A Famous Christian On:
Puzzling Out God
This is a legend about St. Augustine: Augustine took a break
from his writing one afternoon. He was writing about the trinity;
about how God was one God in three persons.
25
As this is a mystery that is impossible for mortals to completely
comprehend, Augustine was confused and frustrated. Off he went
down the beach.
There was a little boy taking water from the Mediterranean Sea
and pouring it from a bucket into a little hole he'd dug in the
sand. Augustine asked the boy, "What are you doing?" The boy
replied that he was attempting to put all the sea into this hole
of his. "Stupid boy," Augustine observed.
The boy replied, "Not as stupid as you trying to explain God."
A Prayer Starter
Dear God, you are my God. I am your child. Help me to trust
you and your love for me. You show your love for me plainly in
the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Help my soul to cling
to you and for your right hand to sustain me.
Suggestions For Practicing Your Prayer
1. As you trust God today, what can you do to show this trust?
2. As you trust God today, what can you refrain from doing to
show this trust?
3. Pray the Our Father three times a day this week. Take time
to repeat three times each prayer: "... your will be done, on
earth as in heaven ..."
A Suggested Order Of Worship
For
Balaam, The Donkey
And The Angel
(Note: You may want to break into small groups for discussion of
the story and then join together again for the closing worship.
If so, select discussion leaders to help people reflect on the
questions in the book. Or, you may want to stay together and
reflect silently as the questions are read.)
Opening: Greeting and introduction of "The Conflict Of The Will:
Our Puzzlement At God's Perfect Will."
Hymns: "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God" or "Lord, Keep Us Steadfast
In Your Word"
Read: Introduction to Chapter Two, page 19
Reading: Numbers 22
Meditation: Balaam, The Donkey And The Angel
Discussion: Break into discussion groups and follow "Questions
About The Story/Questions For You" or read aloud for group silent
reflection. When finished, quietly return to worship setting.
Read: "Reflections By A Famous Christian"
Read: "Prayer Starter"
Invitation: Invite people to add their own prayers
Read: "Suggestions For Practicing Your Prayer"
The Lord's Prayer
The Apostles' Creed
Hymns: "I Wonder As I Wander" or "Love Divine All Loves Excelling"
Benediction And Dismissal: "Go in peace and serve the Lord."

