A former US president and his wife were reputed to have visited their old hometown and
stopped for gas. The attendant happened to be an old acquaintance who had once taken
the wife to a high school dance. Driving away, the president remarked, "Aren't you glad
you didn't marry him, honey? You'd never have gotten out of town."
His wife flashed a saccharine smile and retorted, "If I had married him, he would be
president today and you would still be washing dishes!"
We influence one another, especially in the deep commitments of marriage. Neither of us