Get it straight -- get it right
One of the echoes reverberating through a young child's mind (and an adult's memory) is that of Mother supervising the ordeal of getting dressed. "Straighten that tie; tuck in your blouse; you can't wear that; pull up your trousers!" For some it is a daily drill -- whether for school, going to the store or just out to play. Others only have to bear it for special occasions, such as a wedding or funeral or Christmas Eve. In our outward appearance, we are taught to get it straight, get it right. The reasons range from "That's the way it should be" to "That's how we want people to see us."