Etiquette for God's realm
It has happened to me often enough in my ministry that I must conclude that it is a common experience among pastors. You have performed the marriage ceremony and have accepted the family's (usually insistent) invitation to attend the wedding reception, not infrequently because they would like you to say the prayer before the meal or attend to some other formality of the occasion. But formality not being what it used to be, you arrive at the banquet hall to find that not all of the seating has been pre-assigned with place cards.