Do we ever really get together anymore? Think about it. Funeral homes are experimenting with drive-through visitation. In order to make an uncomfortable situation less awkward, one can now avoid looking into the eyes of a child whose parents just got a divorce -- instead, send them a greeting card designed for just such an occasion. TV trays can be set up more easily than setting the kitchen table, and this way everyone can take care of themselves when it is convenient. Tele-conferences give a whole new meaning to "calling a meeting."