Learning To Behave
Children's sermon
A Time To Plant
52 Children's Sermons
Object:
A container of hair spray.
Does anyone know what this is? (Hold up hair spray. Children respond.) It's hair spray. What do you do with hair spray? (Children respond.) You spray it all over your hair and the hair spray makes it stay in place. The hair spray makes your hair behave.
Some days I get up and get dressed and fix my hair, but it won't do what it's supposed to do. I fuss with it, and comb it and brush it. I use the curling iron on it, but it wants to be stubborn and cantankerous. This piece sticks up here (demonstrate) and this piece is flopping around over here, and this part won't do anything. But, I can spray a little hair spray on it and force it to behave. I can make it do what I want it to do.
If you spray hair spray all over yourself, will it make you behave? That's ridiculous, isn't it? Of course hair spray can't make us behave. It might help our hair, but it will not help our behavior. If hair spray can't help, who or what makes us behave? (Children respond.) I heard several answers. Somebody said God makes us behave. Someone said our moms, dads, and teachers make us behave. Someone else said we make ourselves behave.
Let's talk about your answers. Does God make us behave? Not really. God lets us choose what we are going to do, even when we choose the wrong thing. God wants us to behave, but God leaves that decision up to us.
Do our moms, dads, and teachers make us behave? No. They teach us right from wrong and they help us learn what is expected of us. They correct us when we mess up and they may even punish us to help us learn, but when you get right down to it, they can't really make us behave. They can teach us, correct us, and even punish us, but who is really responsible for whether we behave or not? (Point to self.) We are. Each of us has to make the choice about how we are going to behave.
When we misbehave and don't do what we are supposed to do, not only do we get in trouble, but we also hurt God. He wants us to do what is right so that our lives can be happy and full.
There is no hair spray that can make us behave. We have to take the time to think about what we are doing, so we can make good choices and decisions about our behavior.
I'll pray for you and you pray for me this week. God bless you.
Some days I get up and get dressed and fix my hair, but it won't do what it's supposed to do. I fuss with it, and comb it and brush it. I use the curling iron on it, but it wants to be stubborn and cantankerous. This piece sticks up here (demonstrate) and this piece is flopping around over here, and this part won't do anything. But, I can spray a little hair spray on it and force it to behave. I can make it do what I want it to do.
If you spray hair spray all over yourself, will it make you behave? That's ridiculous, isn't it? Of course hair spray can't make us behave. It might help our hair, but it will not help our behavior. If hair spray can't help, who or what makes us behave? (Children respond.) I heard several answers. Somebody said God makes us behave. Someone said our moms, dads, and teachers make us behave. Someone else said we make ourselves behave.
Let's talk about your answers. Does God make us behave? Not really. God lets us choose what we are going to do, even when we choose the wrong thing. God wants us to behave, but God leaves that decision up to us.
Do our moms, dads, and teachers make us behave? No. They teach us right from wrong and they help us learn what is expected of us. They correct us when we mess up and they may even punish us to help us learn, but when you get right down to it, they can't really make us behave. They can teach us, correct us, and even punish us, but who is really responsible for whether we behave or not? (Point to self.) We are. Each of us has to make the choice about how we are going to behave.
When we misbehave and don't do what we are supposed to do, not only do we get in trouble, but we also hurt God. He wants us to do what is right so that our lives can be happy and full.
There is no hair spray that can make us behave. We have to take the time to think about what we are doing, so we can make good choices and decisions about our behavior.
I'll pray for you and you pray for me this week. God bless you.

