Healthy Grief
Worship
Old Wine In New Skins
Calls To Worship And Other Worship Resources
A widow came to the pastor at the close of the funeral service
and asked, "When will I get over this?" He asked, "Do you really
want to?" "No," she decided, she really did not want to. There's
a fine line between inordinate grieving beyond healthy bounds,
and retaining a cubicle of sweet sadness in a house that's filled
with life. When we lose a child or a parent, a mate or a dear
friend, if the love is rich, the pain of that love being broken
is exquisite and to deny the poignancy of that severed
relationship is to deny the love that it represents. On our own
it's hard to find a good balance between healthy grief and warm
memories. Rather than praying that God will remove all the pain,
we might want to ask that he help us to maintain a sweet
affection for that former bond fashioned in love, as we reclaim a
healthy anticipation of the future.
and asked, "When will I get over this?" He asked, "Do you really
want to?" "No," she decided, she really did not want to. There's
a fine line between inordinate grieving beyond healthy bounds,
and retaining a cubicle of sweet sadness in a house that's filled
with life. When we lose a child or a parent, a mate or a dear
friend, if the love is rich, the pain of that love being broken
is exquisite and to deny the poignancy of that severed
relationship is to deny the love that it represents. On our own
it's hard to find a good balance between healthy grief and warm
memories. Rather than praying that God will remove all the pain,
we might want to ask that he help us to maintain a sweet
affection for that former bond fashioned in love, as we reclaim a
healthy anticipation of the future.

