Expectations
Stories
THE WONDER OF WORDS: BOOK 2
ONE-HUNDRED MORE WORDS AND PHRASES SHAPING HOW CHRISTIANS THINK AND LIVE
A farmer was walking through his fields one day when he tripped over a one-gallon glass jug in his pumpkin patch. He eyed the jug for a moment, then decided to try an experiment. He poked a small pumpkin through the neck of the jug, being careful not to break the vine, and left it there. When the time for the pumpkin harvest came, the farmer again found the glass jug. The pumpkin had filled it completely. However, when it reached the limits of the container, it had stopped growing. The farmer broke the jug and had a pumpkin that had taken the jug's exact size and shape.
Into what kinds of mental containers do you put your expectations? This word comes from two Latin words: "Ex" (out of) and "spectare" (to look). Our expectations are the glasses through which we look out at the world. When two blind men asked Jesus to restore their sight, he said: "Let your prayer be answered in proportion to your faith." (Matthew 9:29) We could paraphrase Jesus' words: "According to your expectations, be it done to you."
First, you can have great expectations of yourself. Oliver Wendell Holmes said sadly: "Most folks die with all their music still in them." Psychologist William James commented: "The average person does not utilize one-tenth of his potentialities." Second, you can have great expectations of others. Jesus knew how important it is to expect the best from people, because people will either live down to what we suspect of them or they will live up to what we expect of them. Third, you can have great expectations of God. William Carey, the eighteenth century Oriental scholar and English missionary to India, used to say: "Expect great things from God; attempt great things for God!" You can have the romance of such great expectations when you realize what high hopes God has for you!
Into what kinds of mental containers do you put your expectations? This word comes from two Latin words: "Ex" (out of) and "spectare" (to look). Our expectations are the glasses through which we look out at the world. When two blind men asked Jesus to restore their sight, he said: "Let your prayer be answered in proportion to your faith." (Matthew 9:29) We could paraphrase Jesus' words: "According to your expectations, be it done to you."
First, you can have great expectations of yourself. Oliver Wendell Holmes said sadly: "Most folks die with all their music still in them." Psychologist William James commented: "The average person does not utilize one-tenth of his potentialities." Second, you can have great expectations of others. Jesus knew how important it is to expect the best from people, because people will either live down to what we suspect of them or they will live up to what we expect of them. Third, you can have great expectations of God. William Carey, the eighteenth century Oriental scholar and English missionary to India, used to say: "Expect great things from God; attempt great things for God!" You can have the romance of such great expectations when you realize what high hopes God has for you!

