Our need to separate ourselves...
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Our need to separate ourselves from all those "over there," who are not like us, sows the seed of our own destruction. Just as in the story of the Pharisee, separateness kills the spirit of love. I was raised in a home that was half Catholic and half Protestant.
I know firsthand the subtle rejections, slights and pain that separateness causes. I have two aunts who have not even returned a Christmas card in 15 years. Yet a few years ago when we visited with friends in Northern Ireland, we discovered in that beautiful and divided land, rejection and hatred of one branch of Christ's church for another which are much more intense than anything we have experienced. Yet we did not have to go so far away to experience separateness.
Though we would never say we "hate" another church in our own community, the way we speak of our love for our own church above all others keeps high walls of separateness and competition between us. Unquestioning love of our own ways can be the tame as rejection of others, even when all are part of the body of Christ.
I know firsthand the subtle rejections, slights and pain that separateness causes. I have two aunts who have not even returned a Christmas card in 15 years. Yet a few years ago when we visited with friends in Northern Ireland, we discovered in that beautiful and divided land, rejection and hatred of one branch of Christ's church for another which are much more intense than anything we have experienced. Yet we did not have to go so far away to experience separateness.
Though we would never say we "hate" another church in our own community, the way we speak of our love for our own church above all others keeps high walls of separateness and competition between us. Unquestioning love of our own ways can be the tame as rejection of others, even when all are part of the body of Christ.
