There usually isn't too much of a problem...
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There usually isn't too much of a problem if someone cannot make it to a wedding for some good reason or another. We send out an invitation by mail and they send back a card with their regrets. In an age of fast, on-demand food preparation, however, we can miss the significance of the king saying, "My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered and everything is ready." The king could only have prepared the meat ahead of time by confirming attendance beforehand. The excuses being made in the parable aren't in response to a first invitation or a save-the-date; they're responses to "Thanks for coming to my son's wedding. Everything is ready. Come inside and eat!" Moreover, all of the reasons given for backing out are matters for which they would have had abundantly adequate time to make arrangements. No wonder the king was angry with these flakes!
