If you have a family, you know what it is like to love many people with all your heart -- that is, equally. You can't choose who you love most. Mom? Dad? Your ornery little brother who always makes you smile? That cousin who moves like a dancer? Your uncle, who you secretly think is the smartest person you know? It doesn't matter what kind of jobs your family members hold. It doesn't matter if they finished school, if they wear the right clothes, if they have the right friends. They are your family, and you just plain love them. You would do anything for them. That's all there is to it.
I am so happy to see you this morning. How are you? (children may respond)
Let's play a game I call “Lost and Found.” Okay? (children respond)
(presenter role plays) Uh, oh, I lost something for today's message. Hmm, I wonder where it could be. It's a box like this. (shows approximate dimensions) (instruct the children to look around the immediate area) (then presenter or child finds it)
Since the Fourth Sunday in Lent has been historically identified as Laetare (Rejoicing Sunday), it is most appropriate that the lessons collectively testify to a theme for which we can rejoice — God saves us by his grace!
In this familiar and well-loved story of the Prodigal Son, I often wonder what happened to the mother of the family. She's totally ignored. So are any daughters. It seems like a completely male stronghold. So much so that I wonder whether perhaps the mother had died some years previously, and that was the cause of much of the unhappiness displayed by both the father and the sons. Or whether the father was such a domineering character that his wife played no real part in family life, but simply bowed her head in compliance with all his wishes, no matter how extreme they were.