Can a blind man lead...
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"Can a blind man lead a blind man?" Jesus asked. I guess they really can, if they take turns. One of the most effective exercises used in "encounter groups" was the "trust-walk." Two people would be paired off from the rest and one would close his or her eyes and the other would, for a stated period of time lead the "sightless one" through the building, trying to give this person the most interesting and exciting time without needing sight. Then the two would switch roles and the exercise would be repeated.
When you are accustomed to seeing, you are reluctant, at first, to walk rapidly, touch unknown things, or sit in places you can't see. But, as the exercise progresses, you begin to trust a good leader to protect your safety and assure you of an interesting time even without sight. And, what makes a good leader? One who considers your handicap of not seeing, who doesn't try to force you beyond your level of trust into a situation that would produce anxiety. In a word, a good leader is one who puts herself "in your shoes," who is sensitive to your needs, recognizing that she would feel the same way if she couldn't see.
When you are accustomed to seeing, you are reluctant, at first, to walk rapidly, touch unknown things, or sit in places you can't see. But, as the exercise progresses, you begin to trust a good leader to protect your safety and assure you of an interesting time even without sight. And, what makes a good leader? One who considers your handicap of not seeing, who doesn't try to force you beyond your level of trust into a situation that would produce anxiety. In a word, a good leader is one who puts herself "in your shoes," who is sensitive to your needs, recognizing that she would feel the same way if she couldn't see.
